Message #3022 of 3025

Mon Jan 15, 2007 11:36 pm     

IMHO some people are just bullies. They like seeing their victims cry. It gives them a rewarding ego rush. They laugh at others and get a kick out of peoples suffering. I'm sure you realise n0by that bullies of all kinds do what they do because they feel they can get away with it. But not with this little black duck. I will defend any Osho Osho member unable or unwilling to stand up for himself/herself/ or are uneducated enough to do so.

Rude, abusive, or nasty people usually have some idiot or apologist to defend them. Your identification with your aggressor/friend means making excuses for them. Obviously to avoid being a victim yourself. By choosing to overlook your fanatical frictionless button pushing or by treating it as something non - serious only promotes more of the same, and therefore giving it room to grow. I do not ignore rudeness, become quiet, or become anyones victim.

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